A Meeting with Lord Rosier – Demon of Love

Its that time again. Whether you subscribe to Valentine’s Day as the Ultimate day to show your love for your significant other, or a commercial vortex of consumerism- Valentine’s is upon us and its showing no signs of letting up.

Throughout my life, I’ve had V-days i’ve loved and those I’ve hated.

This year is one of them I love.

I felt this overwhelming urge to connect with Lord Rosier this month. Lord Rosier is the Demon Lord of Love.
I swoon just seeing that: Lord Rosier is the Demon Lord of Love.

He’s soft spoken, quiet somewhat shy and handsome. He’s not one of the more in your face Demons. In fact, He’s so subtle you almost dont notice Him. He’s the gentle insistence in one’s head to go left when they were going right. Had they not gone left, they never would have had that awkward moment when two strangers crash into each other, the momentum of impact sending papers or groceries flying,the resultant awkward scramble to gather scattered belongings leading to shyly stolen glances and clumsy requests for phone numbers. He urges one to raise their eyes in a crowded room at the precise moment the other half of their soul does exactly the same. Thirty years, four kids and six grandkids later, they revel in the retelling of this highly cliched scenario , eyes still dancing at one another, neither bearing to think what would have happened if they just….didnt….look.

I could go on incessantly about cheesy romantic scenarios, I’m a ridiculous closet romantic. lol But i’ll just say love is a hugely powerful emotion. Even in all its flawed messy glory, Love can move mountains. Lord Rosier is quite fond of the quote “Omnia vincit Amor: et nos cedamus Amori. Love Conquers all and so let us surrender ourselves to Love” Vergil.

I’ve had the fortune of being able to get a few insights from Lord Rosier about love. I was able to do a sort of Question & Answer with Him… but it came at a price. Working with any Demon comes with a price. Usually its a lesson. We are, after all trying to perfect ourselves.

The following are snippets of conversations I’ve had with Lord Rosier on Love over the past few weeks. It was not all in one session. Not everything he said was prompted by a question. Often times He would just tell me something as i was thinking it.

“Lord Rosier, Why Love?”
“Why not love? It comes in many forms. it can heal (vision of baby getting kangaroo care by mother) it can kill (vision of soldiers descending from a giant hollowed horse because of an errant queen), and everything in between.” 

“Soul mates,,, is this a concept humans developed to feel less lonely or do they really exist?” 
“Of course they exist.”
“how come there are so many unhappy and lonely people in the world?Do THEY have a soul mate?”
“Many are lonely because their paths havent crossed yet. It may be because they are far away, not born yet, or choose not to incarnate at this time. “ 
“so does that mean those people are destined to be unhappy?”
“People can find as much happiness with a soul energy match as they would a soul mate.”
“One cannot expect great love, either in friendships, partnerships etc. without love of self. To expect someone to love you when you cannot love yourself is a huge ask.” (remember when i said there is always a price when working with a Demon, usually in the form of a lesson? there it is. Me having to learn self love. Ouch.)

“Lord Rosier, do you love someone?” 
“ Of course, I love many”. 
“Oh? Care to share some details?”
“No.” 
“Darnit!” 

The self love quote struck me probably as the most profound. And also the hardest type of love to achieve. I looked back on my life and things made sense. Certain instances and relationships that had gone wrong, or extended periods of lonliness and self doubt boiled down to lack of self love. I expected someone to love me for me, and i couldnt do the same. Lord Rosier showed me how people emit an energy. Those who are confident, strong in themselves and OK with who they are inside and out, regardless of *insert human insecurity here* actually attracted people like flies to honey. Their energy showed strong and consistent. Those who didnt love and accept themselves had inconsistent energy, often times repelling higher vibrational people while attracting lower vibrational and in some cases, predatory individuals.

Not loving yourself can affect us in more ways than just relationships. With lack of self love comes self doubt, which is probably the biggest blocker in ANY life situation, ESPECIALLY in the metaphysical world. Self doubt can be costly. In a magickal situation that self doubt can make or break a casting or conjuring. At best your spell/conjure wont work. At worst, you have a huge and possibly devastating mess to clean up.

In business it can mean the difference between raising your vibration to attract and manifest wealth, or lowering your vibration to the point you wonder why YOU are working harder than anyone else and getting nothing back.

Lord Rosier gave me a couple seemingly easy however slightly difficult but necessary, exercises to improving self love.
-Stand in front of a mirror and look at yourself. Admire yourself. Dont concentrate on what YOU deem a flaw. YOU are an engineering marvel. Revel in this miracle. (this sounds easy but for many its very hard. )

-Tell yourself every day “I love you.” Then tell yourself one thing you love , ie “ I love you because you make better pancakes than anyone else!” Never say “ i Love you in spite of the fact you have a fat/flat/small/big/skinny bottom” Always say I Love You BECAUSE…. never in spite of.

-Take care of yourself. Inside and out. Physical health is very important. Get that blood pumping to release those endorphins! Equally important is Mental health. Balance is crucial. Dont be afraid to get help.

-Treat yourself. There is nothing wrong with spoiling yourself a little. Buy yourself that book youve been wanting or that coffee thats just a bit on the expensive side. Those with families, demand your *me time* to reconnect with yourself and relax. Treating yourself well doesnt have to cost money. Even buying yourself flowers is a wonderful pick me up!

Lord Rosier says there are many ways to show yourself you love you. Loving yourself will raise your vibrations, releasing past hurts, unblocking the blocks that drag us down and make you actually look and feel healthier-thus opening the doors for limitless potential!

Moral of the story kids? Magician, Love thyself. Omnia vincit Amor: et nos cedamus Amori.

~Priestess Satyra
Priestess of Demonosophy
www.demontemple.com

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